A lot of my clients that I read for are new to having readings. They were either scared before or did not know anyone who read cards. Either way, they are now sitting across from me and wanting me to divine for them. I can do this, this is what i love to do, but here are four things that I hate to hear because these things usually make every reading more difficult.
Yes or no questions
Now do not get me wrong, the cards can answer yes or no questions. it is just so much harder. The cards want to tell you essentially a story, there are spreads and set ups, each cards spot means a different thing, each card has a story of its own. Limiting the cards to either “yes” or “no” limits the help I can give you. It is much easier to ask open ended questions. Ask the cards how you can fix a situation, what you should do to attain your goals, not if something will work out.
This is stupid for a very obvious reason, medical advice is difficult to answer if you were not rained in medicine. On top of that, medical issues can change rapidly. Could the cards answer a medical question? Sure. Do I want to put myself on the line for telling you medical advice without being a practicing doctor? Nope, no, not at all. This is dangerous territory for us both. For me, if something happens to you I not only feel guilty, I could wind up in jail. You could literally end up dead. So lets just stay away from medical questions and divination.
Asking about another person who is not present
Really just asking about another person in general is not super cool. When you get a card reading, I am connecting my energy to yours, I am connecting to your guides so they can give me messages for you. I am not connected to Johnny or Billy. I do not know their energy or their thoughts. I can read how they may be affecting you but I can not give you amazingly awesome advice. It is not that the readings are impossible, it is that they are less trustworthy. Also, your energy could be clouding my reading of them as well which is a whole other pot of coffee.
When exactly an event will happen
A lot of diviners are not psychics, and even if they are psychics, we can not tell you exact times and dates. I do not know if you will conceive a child this month. I can tell you that the cards say it looks good or bad but I can not guarantee any time frames ever. It is just not good business to try and do so. I could be getting a feeling that it will happen, then something you do may change the future events. This is because the future is not stagnant, it is always changing and fluctuating.